Friday 6 February 2015

***MISMATCHED PERFECTION*** .
I used to think that finding the right one was
about the person having a list of certain unique
qualities.
If he had them, we'd be compatible and happy
together.
Sort of checkmate system, isnt it?
yeaah! But that was a complete failure...
But what I found was that a healthy relationship
isnt much about the outer attraction, richness,
sense of humor or commendable intelligence.
Its about avoiding partners with harmful traits n
personality. And about being with a truly good
person who can truly connect with your soul
emotionally and bring the best out of you
inspite of being aware of your imperfections.
Tries his every other bit to complete you.
A relationship is where things just work where
your try to put up your best efforts to keep it
going.
On contrary a good, ever-lasting one works
because here you know that you dont need to
put up extra efforts to maintain the level of
perfection in the bonding. As you know
whatever the list of qualities your partner
possesses, whether the tiles of thinking are
matching or not , the true fact is you happen to
be really really good together and that is what
bonds them well covalently.
And this is the most important aura that should
be made available for any kind of relation to
bloom blissfully!!!

Thursday 5 February 2015

My Maiden Blog Post- *Beginnings*




Baamulaizaaaa Hoshiyaaaaaaaaar....
*drums roll*


Aaaali re aaaali Shonali aaaali....


So here I am to begin my neo sweet journey!
Beginnings & new starts in life always excite us,isnt it??
But, whats important is knowing the right time
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It was a fine morning with the golden sun ablazing the sky.
My lil niece playing in the garden found a cocoon of a butterfly near an old earthern pot.
Finding it cute, she brings the cocoon home along with her.
Each day before leaving for school, she checked it to observe any change.
Days passed... this thing went on.
One day a small opening appeared.
She sat and kept watching its moments for several hours
as it struggled to squeeze its body through the tiny hole.
Then it stopped, as if it coudnt roll out itself further.

"Chinkyyyyy.... come and get ready for school" her mom calls out to her.
And she leaves for her day at school.
Throughout the day,she was in the thought of the cocoon & curious to know what exactly is happening with it.

Tringgggggggg!!! the school bell rang indicating the time to go home.
A light of joy ran through her face.
The lil one reaches home in hurry to get the glimpse of the new life about to take birth.
And to her disappointment finds it still in the same act of getting itself out.
So, she decides to help the the butterfly. She takes a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bits of cocoon.
NOW,the butterfly emerged easily but it had aswollen body and shriveled wings.


Chinky continued to watch it
expecting that any minute the wings would enlarge
and expand enough to support the body.
Neither happened!
Infact the butterfly spent rest of its life crawling around.
Never able to fly ever.
She cried looking at it but it was too late.

What the tiny one, in her her kindness and haste dint understand was-
"BEGINNINGS require struggle"
The restricting cocoon & the struggle required by the butterfly to get through the opening
was a way of forcing the fluid from the body into the wings to achieve its flight.
:)

At times, struggles and beginnings are what we exactly need in life.

RIGHT MOMENT.... RIGHT TIME
And you nail it!