***MISMATCHED PERFECTION*** .
I used to think that finding the right one was
about the person having a list of certain unique
qualities.
If he had them, we'd be compatible and happy
together.
Sort of checkmate system, isnt it?
yeaah! But that was a complete failure...
But what I found was that a healthy relationship
isnt much about the outer attraction, richness,
sense of humor or commendable intelligence.
Its about avoiding partners with harmful traits n
personality. And about being with a truly good
person who can truly connect with your soul
emotionally and bring the best out of you
inspite of being aware of your imperfections.
Tries his every other bit to complete you.
A relationship is where things just work where
your try to put up your best efforts to keep it
going.
On contrary a good, ever-lasting one works
because here you know that you dont need to
put up extra efforts to maintain the level of
perfection in the bonding. As you know
whatever the list of qualities your partner
possesses, whether the tiles of thinking are
matching or not , the true fact is you happen to
be really really good together and that is what
bonds them well covalently.
And this is the most important aura that should
be made available for any kind of relation to
bloom blissfully!!!